1. Variety, they say, is the spice of living. Do not be afraid to experiment. So long as it does not help to make you uncomfortable or even stressed, changing things up can easily try adding huge spark to the sex life of yours. OPEN your sex life.
Objects – Toys, video, candles, and others.
Places – Outside, kitchen, shower, etc.
Examples – Read and follow directions from books, videos, other stories, etc.
New – Try new stuff everyday If something doesn’t work, do not worry and don’t give up. Just opt for the flow and discover how new and different you can come up with ways as well as means to bring variety to the sex life of yours.
2. Innovation is the true secret to exciting sex life. Thinking outside of the box is just how many complicated issues can be resolved. Sex manuals, videos, and treatment can enable you to brush up the technique of yours and learn new and better techniques to meet up with the challenges of the sex life of yours. Do not stop learning. Don’t stop experimenting with innovative and new ways to connect.
3. Communication is the key. Really, association and intimacy lead to good communication skills. But even if you are an excellent communicator, you can have a lousy sex life. Why? Most good communicators do not speak with their partner about sex, orgasm, and what excites them sexually. We think that we must all have “natural” capabilities because sex is extremely “natural”. Hogwash! Something you hope to be really good at takes being in a position to communicate your desires and needs clearly.
4. Teasing – Playfulness is generally exciting and alluring.
Guys, try out good her with foreplay titillating her with the things you know she wants but withdraw from really following through. Slow down! Make her want you even more by taking your time.
Girls, since males are visual, try surprising him with something away from the ordinary as he is leaving for work and backing out of the driveway. He’ll be thinking about you and becoming home most of the day! At the same time use the method above with a fellow by starting and stopping the intimate connection.
5. Open your mind
Guys need to get started to consider in terms of a marathon instead of a sprint. Doing fuq for your significant other, taking the moment of yours to kiss, caress, and express acts of kindness is able to go some distance in spicing up your sex life. Ask her what turns her on. Even if you feel you know, try entering into what she truly wants even in case it takes her a while being you a response.
Girls already know that guys are visual in their stimulation so whatever you do to visually stimulate them, they are going to be ready to go. Two things, however, don’t throw in the towel if you are not successful. Some buy fancy lingerie, put it to use as soon as, and if they don’t get the desired results, it surely goes in the closet. Try asking him what transforms him on (communication – see above) and listen to no matter exactly how unusual it might sound.